Child Development

There is a prevailing cultural fatalism among the people here that has resulted from years of poverty and oppression. Children in poverty often lack more than just physical necessities. Problem solving is often difficult for Nepali adults. Many Nepalis do not tend to work toward solutions for problems that they encounter. They tend, rather, to give up, and feel helpless to change their situation. Furthermore, there is a lack of creativity in play among children of Nepal. They have trouble pretending, and they have trouble creating. Many Nepali children will only draw an exact representation of a picture from a textbook, but not something from their imagination. This, of course, is at least partially the result of generations of poverty. But we want to offer children hope for breaking this cycle, by giving them hope, and a basic belief that the world is good at bottom—something that every child learns to understand by being well taken care of, loved, and free to explore the mystery and wonder of the world.

Tiny Hands Nepal is committed to putting the conclusions of developmental science to use to better the lives of the children of Nepal. And so we collect second-hand children’s books and toys to distribute among the children of Nepal.

TOYS

Children in Nepal almost never play with toys. And yet research has shown that playing with toys is one of the most important ways that children learn about the world. For instance, one study in the United States showed that the most consistent predictor of IQ was availability of play materials. There are many more studies with similar conclusions. The results of this deficiency are often plain to see. Nepali children often manifest a lack of problem solving ability that comes from a tendency to not see the world as whole, interconnected, orderly, and consistent. We hope that by teaching Nepalis about the importance of toys, and by distributing them freely among the children, that we can help to reverse this trend.

BOOKS

As late as 1952, it was estimated that only 9.5% of the Nepali male population, and 0.7% of the female population were literate. Since that time, there has been an increased rate of literacy, which has come to Nepal with globalization, and tourism brought forth under the shadow of the tallest mountain in the world, Mount Everest. This affected the literacy situation in two ways. First, the literary and academic development in the Nepali language never happened. When tourism and globalization brought news hopes and new needs to Nepal in the form of Western ideas, they came in the language of the new world, the language of globalization: English. Second, one of Nepal’s greatest economic sources is tourism. Many of the tourists, of course, speak English. Success here is largely dependant either on academic advancement or on the tourism industry. Therefore, much of the education here takes place not in Nepali, but in English. This trend increases in proportion to the quality of education, and becomes more prevalent the further one progresses educationally. This means that the books (particularly children’s books) that often sit on shelves in American homes collecting dust are of particular relevance to Nepali children.

We believe that stories are one of the most important factors in building a child’s sense of wonder, out of which grows the tendency to see each human life as precious and valuable, and the tendency to always hope, which is the foundation for all human happiness and achievement. And so we want every Nepali child to be read to at bedtime (the most sacred act of the whole of mankind), and to have access to books in which they learn about the world, and be drawn toward that source of wonder in stories that we believe to be so important.

But there is a deficiency of more than just play materials in Nepal. Nepali parents and children’s home caretakers often have these things available, but withhold them from the children so that they will not fight, and so that they will not “get used to having things,” only to leave home and find out that the real world is not half so kind. We believe that at bottom, the world is so kind, and we are trying to prove that to Nepali children. To convince parents and caretakers of the importance of play materials and reading, we will distribute a short, clear, Nepali book on the scientific findings on this subject. We send teachers to trained in child development, to freely assess, assist, and encourage the caretakers of the children’s homes in Kathmandu, and freely distribute children’s books and toys. We also hope to teach games, art, music, library skills, internet research skills, provide seminars for children’s home leaders, and even translate some children’s books into Nepali, in order to provide as much as we can to fill Nepali children’s lives with joy and wonder.